A Solo Nation: The Top 10 States with the Most Single People by Generation in 2025

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September 6, 2025

On September 6, 2025

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Brad Peters, Chief Development Officer, Director, CEO of Speed Mingle

For the first time in history, the number of single adults in the U.S. has reached a critical mass, with over half the adult population now unmarried. But where are all the singles? A new analysis reveals that while some states are magnets for singles across all ages, the top destinations for each generation are driven by distinct economic, social, and cultural factors. From Gen Z’s search for community to Baby Boomers’ quest for companionship, the geography of singlehood is as diverse as the generations themselves.

This breakdown, based on recent data from the U.S. Census Bureau and market studies, uncovers the top 10 states where each generation is most likely to be found flying solo in 2025.

Gen Z (Ages 13-28): The Urban Vanguard

Gen Z singles are flocking to states with major urban centers, driven by job opportunities and a desire for diverse social scenes. They prioritize vibrant city life and a strong sense of community.

California: The sheer size of California’s population and its numerous major metropolitan areas make it a hub for young singles.
Texas: As a major destination for internal migration, Texas’s booming job market in cities like Austin and Dallas is drawing a large number of young, single professionals.
New York: New York City continues to be a magnet for Gen Z singles seeking a fast-paced lifestyle and diverse social opportunities.
Florida: With a growing tech and service industry, Florida is attracting young adults to its major cities, providing a balance of work and an active lifestyle.
Arizona: Affordable living and a growing job market in tech and healthcare are making cities like Phoenix and Tempe popular destinations for Gen Z.
Washington: The tech industry in Seattle and the state’s natural beauty are a draw for outdoorsy and career-focused young singles.
Virginia: With a strong government and tech presence in the D.C. area, Virginia offers a large pool of young, single professionals.
Georgia: Atlanta’s growing film and tech scene, along with a relatively lower cost of living, is attracting a large number of young singles.
Colorado: A haven for active singles, Colorado offers a blend of outdoor adventure and a thriving urban scene.
Illinois: Chicago’s vibrant social scene and diverse economy make it a prime spot for singles seeking career growth and city life.

Millennials (Ages 29-44): The Lifestyle Seekers

Millennials are at a stage where they are focused on career, lifestyle, and finding a partner who shares their values. The states they are flocking to often offer a balance of economic opportunity and a desirable quality of life.

Texas: Houston, Austin, and Dallas continue to be a top destination for millennial migration due to a strong job market and affordable living.
California: The state’s tech hubs and urban centers, despite high costs, remain a powerful draw for millennials seeking career advancement and a large dating pool.
Florida: Known for its lack of state income tax and a wide range of cities, Florida is a popular destination for millennials prioritizing work-life balance.
New York: The city that never sleeps offers an endless array of social opportunities and a high concentration of singles.
Washington: The technology boom in Seattle and the state’s outdoor lifestyle are a major attraction for educated and career-driven millennials.
Colorado: Denver and Boulder offer a perfect mix of outdoor recreation and a strong job market in the tech and startup sectors.
Georgia: Atlanta’s a thriving economic hub with a growing population of young professionals.
Arizona: Affordable home prices and a growing job market in tech and healthcare are attracting millennials.
Massachusetts: Boston’s numerous universities and high-tech industries ensure a steady supply of young, single professionals.
North Carolina: The Research Triangle Park and growing tech scene are making the state a magnet for millennials.

Gen X (Ages 45-60): The Independent & Re-Engaged

Many Gen X singles are divorced or never married, and they are seeking states that offer a strong sense of community and opportunities for an active, authentic lifestyle.

Florida: A warm climate and a vast population of single adults make Florida a top destination for Gen X singles.
California: A large population and diverse communities provide a significant dating pool for this generation.
Texas: A growing economy and a balance of urban and suburban living make Texas attractive.
New York: New York’s cultural scene and diverse population make it a hub for Gen X singles.
Arizona: The state’s warm climate and retirement communities, which are often home to active and independent singles, make it an attractive option.
Virginia: With a strong job market and numerous cities, Virginia offers a stable and diverse environment.
Washington: The Pacific Northwest’s outdoorsy lifestyle and urban centers are a draw for Gen X singles.
Illinois: Chicago’s vibrant cultural and social scene appeals to those looking to re-engage with city life.
Colorado: A haven for active, independent singles who love the outdoors.
Pennsylvania: A large population and a mix of urban and rural settings provide a diverse dating scene.

Baby Boomers (Ages 61+): The Companionship Seekers

Baby Boomers, many of whom are divorced or widowed, are looking for states that offer companionship, community, and a comfortable pace of life. They are often drawn to areas with a high percentage of other older adults.

Florida: Unsurprisingly, Florida is the top destination for Boomer singles, offering a large population of active, retired, and financially independent adults.
California: The sheer number of Baby Boomers in the state ensures a large dating pool, particularly in senior-friendly communities.
New York: The state’s vast population and numerous communities for older adults make it a major hub.
Texas: Texas’s growing population and retirement-friendly cities are drawing a large number of Boomer singles.
Arizona: The state’s many retirement communities, active lifestyle options, and warm climate make it ideal for older singles.
Pennsylvania: A large Boomer population and a mix of urban and suburban areas make it a key state.
North Carolina: A growing destination for retirees, with a high concentration of active-adult communities.
Washington: A comfortable climate and friendly communities are appealing to this demographic.
Ohio: A large population and affordable living make it a significant hub for Boomer singles.
Michigan: The state’s natural beauty and a large, established population of Boomers provide opportunities for companionship.